Tis the season for all sorts of things that don't end up in holiday songs. Holidays, by definition, are supposed to be joyous happy occasions. Not everyone feels the spirit of the season in that manner... which bites. For some, the previous loss of a loved one brings feelings of melancholy. For some, the regrets of years past cause introspective sadness. For others, the misunderstood and/or selfish actions of others causes deep distress over what they dreamed the holidays would be.
It doesn't have to be that way. The moment taken to smile at a grumpy stranger ... the act of paying for coffee or lunch for someone fumbling for change in their pockets ... the anonymous purchase of a gift for a child who might not get one otherwise ... the hug given to an acquaintance who is having a harsh day ... the simple joy of viewing holiday lights & decorations ... taking a moment to focus more on these small things that are about someone other than ourselves can help remind us of the happiness that can be found in this sometimes difficult season.
I wish for you joy, happiness, peace, & feelings of love & thankfulness. Just remember, they're not necessarily found by looking inward.
~ The Girl In The Little Black Dress
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