Just read the most amazing book, "The Celestine Prophecy". I love fiction that has enough truth in it that it makes you think, question, and reassess. This book did exactly that.
Life has so much constant competition in it. There's the obvious, like sports, and politics, and careers. Then there's the not so obvious. Relationships of every kind have their own forms of competition. The child that wants to create their own identity separate from their parents, and the parents that want to mold the child's future in the way they believe is best. The friends that secretly try to ensure they have the prettiest hair or the most fabulous outfit, while outwardly complimenting their counterparts. The constant push for being heard and understood in a relationship, or simply the battle against unseen outside influences just to keep that relationship alive. So many of these "competitions" leave us feeling drained, exhausted, and stressed, instead of the happy, fulfilled exuberance that we all ultimately would want out of life. Why do we tend to push so hard, when those battles create feelings of the exact opposite nature than what we want?
Imagine what life would be like, how our relationships with others would be like, if we focused on empowering everyone around us. If we strove to listen with both our ears and our eyes to truly comprehend the honest needs of all situations, and then followed through with our actions to compliment that comprehension. How might we act differently, or react differently in basic everyday situations? Would our relationships with family, with friends, with coworkers, even with passing strangers, become calmer & more positive or productive? If absolutely everyone operated that way, wouldn't everyone become stronger, feel better, be more empowered on all levels?
I do not subscribe to the idea of a Utopian society, nor do I think that the world is not made better without a variety of opinions and different ways of doing things. It would be an excruciatingly boring existence if everyone thought and acted the exact same as everyone else. But if there were less focus on judging, on rooting out the negative, on how "I'm right, so you must be wrong" ..... wouldn't basic daily life be ultimately easier, ultimately better for everyone, regardless of race, creed, or religion? Food for thought.
~ The Girl In The Little Black Dress
2 comments:
I have the prettiest hair.
Haha! Not exactly what I wanted you to take away from the piece, but...... :)
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